Craps.

Oh well, out of sudden I have some thoughts about how do I choose a guy to become my boyfr.

Well normally guys who come and approach will not be entertain, if you know me well.
So mostly, I mean mostly, all of my ex-es, didn't come to me, which is also meaning that, I was the one who approached.
To be honest, I mean really really honest, I only go for guys which I think is cute and handsome.
At least good looking.
Of course it is a very subjective kind of thing in this case.
But yeah, he has to appear to be charming, at least charming for me.

So I have been starting to ask myself: Have I been taking the physical looking part too seriously?
I mean like well, I don't normally give a chance to those who I think is not cute or handsome even he is fucking good to me or rich.

Am i missing out some of the guys out there cuz of this? Am I missing out the right guy just because I cant accept how he looks like?

Ok, talking about the word RICH, I have came across to really poor guy for the last THREE relationships already.

I don't hope to mention how poor they are but yeah, you know what I mean.
IS MONEY an issue to you then?
Is MONEY one of the considerations before you get involve in a relationship?

For me, IT IS AN ABSOLUTELY YES.

While I was younger I thought I could be fine with it.
I think that my family's economic status is quite OK, I mean yea, it's above average so I don't have to actually depend on my boyfr in this case.
So I tried to tolerate with these ex-es by telling myself that could spend on my own.

I told myself that there's no reason for me in hoping someone else's father to afford someone's daughter.
I told myself that my own father could afford his own daughter.
I told myself that since both of us are still students that's why he doesn't have the money to spend on himself and also me.

Of course there were a lot more reasons for me to convince myself in accepting the fact, which is MY　BOYFR　IS　FUCKING POOR.

If I were younger I might think it is fine 'cuz I don't think about FUTURE when I couple when someone.
But now, I starting to understand that money is too too important for us in building a relationship.
You might say well, "no money then stay at home lah!"
How if the family doesn't like it when the boyf is at home with the girl?

How are you going to have your celebration?
Valentines? Birthday? Anniversary?

With money, we can do a lot more things.
We could go travel, we could go for movie, nice fine dining, we can do SO MUCH ROMANTIC STUFFS WITH MONEY.

Oh no, don't tell me romantic doesn't acquires money.
Yes, I know, some romantics are still romantic with-out money.

But with MONEY, there are MUCH MUCH MORE TO DO!

Light on some candles on the floor and then the next with a bouquet of flower?
Sing a song for her, holding hands and walking at the beach?

Cast your love through the advertisement board opposite her house for a whole night long?

Candles and flower are bought with money!
Sing a song at the beach?
You will have to drive to the beach!

Oh the last one requires the most money everyone knows that.

So, is money playing an important in a relationship?

Attitude.

A lot might say they look into attitude more than physical looking.
Yes I agree cuz when someone has really good personality, he/she appears to be good looking then.
But is appearance important in this case?

Yes of course it is.

WHY??

The reason is really simple.

Without the good looking, as I told you, at least appealing to you, will you even look into the guy/girl and try to look into his/her attitude then?
Then how could you say appearance is not important here?

Okay lets say there's 10 guys n front of you, I CONFIRM that you'll feel like talking to the good looking ones.

RITE?

Then?

Even if the guy has really kind-hearted with perfect attitude but if he is fugly do you think you will even feel like knowing him more?
There's possibility - which is he is FUCKING RICH.

See?

Well to be frank I got no idea why am I writing about all these now.
My initial purpose was to convince myself to not look into the appearance to much in choosing boyfr.
But do yo think I have done what I was going to do?
I afraid no.

Anyway, I hope this post gave you some ideas on... anything. I don't know.
Maybe ideas on drawing or architectural kind of thing? I don't know.
Thanks for reading my craps anyway.

Good day to ya all!

XOXO, ♥



Oh yeah, I'm single right now, just to inform (:
So guys which are rich or handsome/cute/charming, here's a chance!